First on the agenda...

terminology.

A couple of things to know (for the rest of your life or until a season/designer calls for otherwise):

• Not all cuts have you in mind. Some shapes will work for you, some will not, and if you are brave enough to work for it, that's another lesson we will explore in time. And I like you.
• Camouflaging your most self-conscious features can sometimes actually create more of a problem. Tummy area a little full? Starting w/ a heavy fabric, then a cover wrap, a belt to bind, not to mention whatever bottom you've paired--you've created yourself a lump sum. Cuts. Fits. More on this to come.
• Beyond the laws of cut, there are rules of colour. But another first: don't be afraid of it! One of my favourite stories to tell: I specifically remember (*another sign to consider in the long run of feeling good!), one early fall evening, I wore a vintage, lilac dress that had the most amazing, ruffle-boat neckline. The collar draped for a slight sleeve, so to maximize effect, I wore a simple, short chain, single diamond cluster necklace and light pearl stud earrings. After some mingling and considerate thought, a fellow party-goer said with a surprising air "Do you always wear black?" I thought on this later and considered all the facts. The answer was no (of course) but clearly I was doing something right. The right fit for the right function will work wonders, but owning your look will take you further. Don't be that girl that 'always wears black'!
• Have no fear. Think of pieces this way: if you didn't have the option, you would be bored with minimal selection!
• Whatever 'rules' or 'laws' your mother told you were probably set before the newest grande rule (comparable to my last bullet 'Have no fear'): Oh, wait, that would be: it's time for a change! Not everything applies to you! And because of that you are different. Special. And I like you.